Try not to feel like you’re running late to anything. Some people date in high school. Others start much later. I get letters from 32-year-olds with no experience. We’re all on our own schedules.
Worth noting: some people who feel confident about relationships and sexual experience at 18 wish they had a higher weighted and unweighted GPA. You’re doing great! Curious, hopeful, and excited, not desperate.
As for the friend, would it be so bad if you had some romantic feelings for him? Ask if he wants to spend time together in person. Find out if he needs support after dealing with family issues. See how it feels.
Also remember that it’s OK to have a crush and not do anything about it. Your letter makes it sound like he’s the guy who’s around. You might develop feelings for him, but it’s also possible you’ll think, “Eh, I like him, but only because he’s the only person in front of me.”
Then you can pursue it or not. Whatever feels fun, safe, enjoyable, etc.
You want to go elsewhere to see and experience more. It’s OK to hold off on any big choices until you get there.
– Meredith
Readers? Pursue a crush? Get to NYC first? Pep talks about feeling like you don’t have enough experience?
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