My husband bought a romantic card saying 'to the one I love' but didn't give it to me - should I leave him?
- A woman revealed her husband bought a love card but he didn't give it to her
- She took to Mumsnet to explain that she found a receipt on the floor for the item
- She admitted she has thought about leaving him for a while but is 'scared'
- Many said 'it's time to leave him' while others claimed she was overthinking it
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A woman has been left in a predicament after discovering her husband had bought a card which read 'To the one I love' - but didn't give it to her.
The anonymous woman took to the British parenting forum Mumsnet to explain that she found a receipt on the floor from a card shop for the card which she never received.
She admitted that her husband has cheated on her before, and she has been thinking about leaving him for a while, but is 'scared of the unknown'.
Many people rushed to the comments saying 'it's time to leave him', while others said she was overthinking it.
The woman explained: 'Long time lurker here, but just feeling a bit sick even though I know this has been coming for years.
'I found a receipt on my kitchen floor from a card shop says " To the one I love, couple" The card I've received from my husband says "to my wife" and is from a different shop. There is no one else at home just us.
'So, what to do? I've been thinking for a long time of leaving him ( this wouldn't be the first time he's cheated) but I'm so scared of the unknown and all of the stress that comes with a divorce, I really don't know what the process is.
'I don't want to upset my family either and I know my mum will see a divorce as a failure as my parents were together literally a lifetime until my dad passed away earlier this year. So I'm going to wait Christmas out best I can then in the new year, I don't know...
'Not sure why I've suddenly decided to post this, maybe seeing it in black and white confirms it is real.'
Many forum users rushed to the comments to tell her to leave the relationship, especially given her husband has previously cheated.
One said: 'I was about to say maybe it has the same code as another card but then read he has history for cheating so he's probs at it again. Sorry. Time to leave x'
Meanwhile, another Mumsnetter wrote: 'Don’t think the receipt is a reliable indicator of a specific card.
'But your husband is a serial cheat. I’m sorry your mum will be disappointed, but she should be disappointed in him, not you. You deserve to be loved.'
And a further respondent simply added: 'Leave asap.'
Others suggested maybe she is reading too much into the receipt - and maybe he bought two cards for her.
One person said: 'Clutching at straws here, but did he buy one card and then change his mind and buy another? My partner often buys a couple of cards and then decides which one he likes best.'
Another wrote: 'If this was my husband I'd think it was innocuous e.g. he could have bought one card and lost it so had to buy another (it’s happened to me before!) but I think your gut is telling you something here because he clearly has form.'
Someone else said: 'It's wouldn't mean anything in my house because we pick up random litter, i'm forever picking up receipts out of the truck, out of the buggies before i put in my groceries, stuff that's blown into my yard after garbage day.
'I would suspect a back story, one that has you doubting him.'
Meanwhile a fourth added: 'My DH often buys a card, hides it somewhere, loses it then buys another. I found a valentines card in between some cook books in June or something daft like that and that was why.
'So could always be that. But if you are not happy and he has form for cheating it’s time to start thinking about leaving.'
Some people even suggested she should do some of her own investigating to find more proof.
One person wrote: 'If you want to know go to the card shop and buy the card he bought you and see what’s on the receipt. But it sounds like you have bigger issues.'
Another said: 'If you want proof op - you have the receipt for the card. You know where it's from.
'I'd go and see if you can see the card he bought you. If you can - buy it and get the receipt. See what it says.
'You might not need concrete evidence to leave but there would be a way if you wanted it.'
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2022-12-19 07:49:07Z
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