I listen to your podcast and thought you might have some advice.
I’m 23 years old and I am really struggling to find someone I really like. I’ve only had one long-term relationship with a guy I didn’t like romantically. He was more of a friend, and actually, two years after our breakup he still is a close friend. But I never felt anything more.
I have liked guys a lot! There have been two guys I seriously crushed on. I saw them and forgot my name. The last guy was nine months ago and I still black out just thinking about him. So it’s not that I can’t feel these feelings. It’s just that the guys I have liked are always unavailable (either taken or forbidden in some way).
There are guys who are interested in me sometimes, but they are never the type of person I am looking for in my life right now. I want to be burned by desire and have fun, and not talk about anything serious or important. I am always the mature one and the hard worker and overthinker. I have had the ” we love each other to death relationship.” Now I want to live my life a bit more, and just be with the people it feels addictive to be close to. I don’t care if it will lead to a relationship at this point in my life. And the guys I have felt this way for always like me too. But they don’t do anything (either because they don’t like me enough, because they are usually taken, or maybe because I am less approachable because I care so much …who knows?).
This is my problem. The guys I like exist, I know who they are, how and where they are, they also always have interest in me, but it never becomes anything. And every day another guy I’m not interested in asks me out. What’s going on?
Anyway, in conclusion, what would you advise me to do in order to change the type of guys I interact with romantically to match my values a bit more as a person, so that I like them more?
I love your podcast and I feel sooo seen when you share Meredith’s personal experiences with dating.
– Looking for romance
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